JAMES L. CLARK
Close the Gap Between Where You Are and Where You Want To Be
Six Really Good Reasons You Shouldn't Be Here
Hi, I’m James L. Clark.
I always read “about” pages―and they always seem to be written in the Third Person.
So after James L. Clark made a number of ham-fisted attempts to sound cooler and smarter than he really is by writing about himself in the third person (it felt like I was writing my own obituary), he gave up, and decided to write like it was an email to a new friend.
Which, in a lot of ways―it is.
Okay, what to share? Well, let me start with this: I’m not as young as I used to be, and like everyone else, every day that I'm privileged to wake up again, is another day I'm closer to the end of it. My life, that is. And that, in large part, is why I'm investing more time in other people and, hopefully, we're all working together to make the world a better place having had us in it. However brief. If that makes any sense?
I’m a bit of a nomad―splitting my time between the US, Europe, and the Caribbean with my wife. She and I have been married for nearly thirty years at the time of writing this. We have a grown son and a toddler (there's over twenty years between them). You can call us Sarah and Abraham I guess.
We used to have massive dogs (they needed their own couches) that traveled with us all over the world, but we've since lost them sadly, and we have a couple of cats. One we've had for about a decade now and the other my son and I rescued in the flood waters of Texas after a major hurricane. She's lovely.
But that’s probably not what you’re looking for.
You’re probably wondering... Is this guy worth listening to?
Well, for many the answer is NO. Nope. Definitely NOT.
Here’s six really good reasons why you should not be here:
I say what I think. I'm that kind of crazy like that.
Let’s be real—avoiding the truth doesn’t help anyone. Tough topics exist. Some, like politics or relationships, can be awkward to talk about. Others, such as issues around equality or societal challenges like human trafficking, are difficult but necessary to confront.
These realities don’t disappear just because we scroll past them on social media or focus on lighter conversations. Life is happening all around us, and sometimes the best thing we can do is face it head-on.
Straightforward, Not Hurtful
I believe in being direct and honest. But honesty doesn’t mean being unkind. There’s a big difference between speaking the truth and being thoughtless. I’ve found that when we communicate with both candor and respect, we have the best chance of making a positive impact.
One of the biggest challenges today is the way people interact online. Comments are often harsher than they would be in person, and social media tends to highlight the extremes. I think we can all do better—being respectful doesn’t mean sugarcoating the truth, but it does mean remembering that we’re all human.
Balancing Tradition and Progress
A lot of my beliefs are rooted in values that have stood the test of time. I appreciate the wisdom of thinkers like T.S. Eliot, who once said:
“Conservatism is too often conservation of the wrong things: liberalism a relaxation of discipline; revolution a denial of the permanent things.”
This idea resonates with me. It’s about recognizing what truly matters—things like protecting life, sharing knowledge, and caring for our planet—while also opposing anything that threatens individual rights and freedoms.
Extremes, on either side, are rarely helpful. History shows us that the real danger isn’t left versus right but authoritarianism versus liberty. Striking a balance between principles and progress is what keeps society moving forward.
A Thoughtful Approach
I’m a critical thinker and a lifelong learner, but I’m also grounded in values that guide me. I draw inspiration from many sources, including timeless books and teachings that offer practical wisdom.
For me, faith has been a foundation. While I don’t claim to have all the answers or proof for the spiritual beliefs I hold, I’ve found guidance in lessons that emphasize compassion, integrity, and perseverance. These principles have shaped my relationships, my work, and my efforts to serve others around the world.
Good Advice is Universal
At the end of the day, good advice is good advice, no matter where it comes from. Whether it’s ancient texts, modern research, or personal experience, I value insights that help people live better, more fulfilling lives.
If something improves your life or helps you see the world more clearly, isn’t that what truly matters?
That’s the mindset I bring to my work and the conversations I have. It’s about being real, staying open to growth, and always striving to make a positive difference.
I'm not the Guru you're searching for.
Let’s start with this: I truly understand where you’re coming from.
For most of my adult life—spanning decades—I’ve made it a personal mission to learn from others. I’ve read nearly every major “self-help” book out there, from timeless classics to the latest bestsellers. I’ve listened to countless audio programs, beginning back in the cassette tape era (yes, it was a thing), transitioned to CDs, and now consume digital content on the go. I’ve watched hours upon hours of seminars, starting with VHS, moving to DVDs, and eventually streaming.
On top of that, I’ve attended dozens of live events, including some of the biggest and most influential seminars. I’ve had the privilege of seeing leaders like Tony Robbins and Brian Tracy in person, soaking in their wisdom and energy.
The Search for Guidance
When I was younger (though saying that makes me sound like I’m pushing 100), I was constantly looking for a mentor—someone to look up to, learn from, and emulate. That’s a normal part of growth. Even now, with all the experiences I’ve had and the things I’ve accomplished, I still have that drive to seek out knowledge from others.
There’s something deeply comforting about learning from someone else’s success and understanding. It’s as if you’re standing on the shoulders of giants, seeing farther and clearer than you ever could on your own.
The Thinkers Who Shaped Me
Many brilliant minds have influenced the way I think, live, and work. In the realm of personal development, I’ve been deeply impacted by Dale Carnegie, Napoleon Hill, Norman Vincent Peale, Earl Nightingale, Zig Ziglar, Richard Bandler, John C. Maxwell, and Stephen Covey, to name just a few.
I’m also deeply interested in philosophy, which has broadened my understanding of the world and human nature. I’ve studied the works of great thinkers like Plato, Aristotle, Socrates, Kant, Descartes, Hume, Locke, and Kierkegaard. Their ideas have shaped my approach to problem-solving, ethics, and even day-to-day decision-making.
Visiting places tied to these philosophers has been an enriching experience. For example, standing in the shadow of the Parthenon in Athens, where Socrates and Plato once debated, was a powerful reminder of how enduring their contributions are.
Learning by Following the Recipe
Here’s a principle I live by: if you want to learn something, find someone who has the “recipe” for success in that area.
Want to bake a perfect cake? Ask a baker. Want to build wealth? Learn from people who’ve earned and managed wealth with integrity. It’s simple, really. You wouldn’t ask someone who’s struggling to manage their own finances for investment advice. That’s not being dismissive—it’s just common sense.
This approach has served me well over the years. By seeking out the wisdom of others, I’ve been able to grow, achieve goals, and overcome challenges.
Here’s the Truth
I’m not a famous thinker, a best-selling author, or a world-renowned speaker. I’m not the smartest person in the room, the most articulate, or the most talented. But I do have experiences, skills, and insights that I believe can be helpful to others.
For example, I can bake a cake that will knock your socks off. That’s a small thing, but it speaks to a bigger idea: we all have unique strengths to share.
If You’re Ready to Learn
What I’ve learned over the years is that success comes down to two key factors: being open to good advice and being willing to put in the work. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.
So, if you’re ready to learn, grow, and work toward what you want, let’s take the next step together. After all, life’s journey is so much richer when we walk it with others.
I can't help you get rich—quick.
’m passionate about building personal and financial wealth, but let me be clear—I’m not about smoke and mirrors.
No Tolerance for Scams
I can’t stand scams or cons. That said, I do find the psychology behind them fascinating. Sun Tzu said it best in The Art of War:
"If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle."
Understanding how scams work is part of being prepared and protecting yourself.
Take this for example: I was once interrupted at a payphone on my university campus by someone pitching a “business opportunity.” He started with, “You look like an intelligent guy…” and launched into his spiel. I immediately told him, “I think you have me confused with someone else.” My friend, a pre-med student on the call with me, laughed so hard he couldn’t breathe. That story has stayed with me, and I still share it when teaching sales classes.
Online Marketing: A Legitimate Focus
One of my primary areas of expertise is online marketing and business. When people hear that, they sometimes assume it’s tied to some “get rich quick” scheme. Let me set the record straight: nothing could be further from the truth.
In today’s world, it’s almost impossible to separate online and offline business operations. Whether you’re a local bakery or a multinational corporation, having an online presence is essential. It’s simply how the world works now.
I’ve been marketing and selling online for decades. Long before domains were cheap and social media existed, I was selling on platforms like bulletin board systems (BBS), Prodigy, AOL, and Compuserve. My first .com domain cost me $75—an astronomical amount at the time.
Lessons Learned the Hard Way
Early on, I fell for the promises of late-night infomercials and glossy marketing brochures. They painted a picture of effortless wealth if you just “bought the system.” Like many others, I was drawn in by the idea of easy money. I thought I’d strike it rich overnight.
But here’s the truth: those programs seldom, if ever, deliver what they promise. If the creators were as successful as they claimed—whether in real estate, stocks, or social media marketing—why would they be selling courses instead of living off their success?
The reality is, selling the idea of success is often their real business model. I bought into many of those programs, and none of them worked for me, no matter how diligently I followed their instructions. The so-called “systems” weren’t designed to help people; they were designed to sell hope.
Integrity in Marketing
Now, don’t get me wrong—I’m a marketer. But I’m not that kind of marketer. I use proven marketing techniques that work, but my approach is rooted in integrity.
Here’s the difference: I focus on offering legitimate products and services that people truly need or want. I don’t sell hype, and I never exploit vulnerabilities. To me, that kind of behavior is unacceptable.
Because I work hard, plan strategically, and use ethical marketing practices, I’ve built a business that generates consistent income—whether I’m in my pajamas, at the beach, or sipping coffee in San Marcos Square in Venice.
Real Work, Real Results
Everything I’ve ever earned, I’ve worked for. And if you’re serious about building wealth, you’ll have to work for it too. The good news is, I can show you how.
Whether you’re looking to grow your business, develop your skills, or create a new source of income, I provide tools, training, and strategies to help you achieve your goals.
Let’s get to work.
If you won't work for it, I won't help you.
Note that I said I wont, not that I couldn’t.
I can. In most cases anyway.
But, if you’re not willing to invest yourself―I’m not gonna.
I can't stand takers. And there are a lot of them out there. People who are just looking for short cuts or to take advantage of other people's generosity. Been there, had it happen to me. Too many times. And I'm telling you right now, I don’t waste my time on people who are time wasters. I simply don't have enough time available to me to do that. Other people like my wife, kids, family, friends, students, mentees, customer, and clients deserve my time way more than someone whose just looking to get something for free. The fact is, anything worth having, takes hard work, laser-like focus, dedication, and perseverance to get.
Period.
Most of all, it takes time.
A lot of your time. Probably 10 times what you think it will take.
Trust me, not even people like Tim Ferris works four hours a week―even after he became a millionaire and didn’t have to work. Because even when you do “get there”, it’ll still take work to keep it all running smoothly so it doesn’t implode.
Fixing problems, repairing relationships, running businesses, earning an education all takes time (and hard work).
You can believe that. Anyone who tells you differently is full of crap.
My last major project cost me 80-100 hours a week for two years straight. Yes, cost. Time is the one currency you can’t earn more of. Once you spend it, it’s gone. And there’s no refunds. So, invest it wisely. You can do the ol’ 40-40-40 that we’ve all been told is the only way to lead a successful, fulfilling, happy life (total nonsense)―or you can strategically invest it so it pays dividends.
Key life lesson here: become an investor with your time. Not a spender.
So if you’re not willing to commit for the long haul, and actually act on the advice I give―I’m definitely not your guy.
I can't help you get rich—quick.
Wait, didn’t I JUST say that up in section 3?
Yep, I sure did.
I know it feels like some kind of internet dejavu, but it’s not. I’m repeating myself because it’s important you realize that while you can make a very decent income online (or off), there’s nothing in life that comes without a cost. Not even winning the lottery.
This is especially true if you want to become financially independent. Nobody is going to do it for you. If you want it, you’re going to have to apply yourself. What I can do is teach you methods that will help you achieve those kinds of goals. I won’t do it for you, and I won’t help you take unethical or immoral short cuts to get there. Shortcuts, sure, but not the immoral or unethical kind.
Now in saying all that, quick isn’t the issue; I have no problem with increasing the speed by which funds enter my account. That in and of itself isn’t a problem. In fact, I’m all for getting rich quickly, just not get rich quick schemes. I know it sounds like I’m contradicting myself, but I’m not. There really is a difference.
The key is that you understand that difference.
It’s something I can teach you.
If you're not willing to pay it forward, move on.
I'm only looking to work with and get to know people who are willing to help others become more today than they were yesterday. After all, that is a central theme of both my life and the purpose behind this foundation. I want to do my part to make a difference in the world, and to leave it a better place for my children, for you, and for others. The older I get, the more important that is to me. In my mind the root of all happiness is in serving others, whereas, the root of all misery is in only doing things for yourself.
Are you actually still reading? Sweet.
If you've made it this far, you're pretty amazing. Talk about staying power.
Here’s my most heartfelt promise to you:
- I’ll give it to you straight, and I won’t hold anything back
I have always valued the truth. The whole truth. And nothing but the truth. Not as someone just happens to sees it, but objective facts where humanly possible. Life, like in a military engagement, requires a healthy dose of reality; speculation, conjecture, and rumors won’t help you get ahead. Making decisions on poor information almost always results in poor outcomes.
- My advice will always be free, with no strings attached
I believe, firmly, in an exchange in abundance. So the resources you find on this site, and many of the products will be available at absolutely no cost to you or anyone else who happens to find them, regardless of the value.
But I know that I have to earn your trust first. In a sea of talking heads out there, I’m just one little voice and when you first learn about me, you’ll not be sure if you can actually learn from me. My goal then is to give you solid, actionable, strategies and tactics you can use to begin improving your life right now―not later.
At absolutely no cost to you.
- This will almost certainly be followed by blatant sales pitches and requests for support.
Wait, what? Did I just tell you flat out that I’d be pitching you things to you to buy or asking you for money?
Yes, I did. And why shouldn’t I?
Integrity and transparency matters to me. I’m guessing it matters to you too. So, I want to start out our relationship with that as the foundation. I’ll always give you something for nothing―something of honest to goodness real value, where I don’t expect anything in return. After all, my life and this Foundation revolve around helping others become more today than they were yesterday. I created the Foundation for that very purpose.
The idea is simple: learn and grow by using the resources we offer here. It’s my gift to you, because others invested in me. Use my advice and the resources offered by the Foundation to become closer to God, to reign in your finances, to start a business, to fix your marriage―to live life more abundantly. Anything I can afford to give away for free, I will continue to do. It’ll take time for me to truly build out the Foundation and this site (after all, I just started it). But I’m going to give it my all.
My hope is one day you’ll think to yourself, “Man, all of this free stuff has really helped me. Maybe it’s time for me to give back.” And then you do.
Pretty simple, right? I sure think so.
Me and a small but growing group of volunteers will continue to produce resources (and so does our tiny little staff) and the Foundation will share them with the public (often at no charge or greatly subsidized), but it’s important to point out that the products aren’t free to us. It costs me time, and it costs the foundation time and money to print a book, it costs time and money to film and cut a video, and it costs money to stamp DVDs. Shipping isn’t free either, not even for charities or ministries. Even the server where this very website resides costs every single month, and the more it is used, the more it costs. That’s life. And those funds have to come from somewhere.
That’s where you can help.
So if you benefit from them, and you believe in what we’re doing here, partner with me and the Foundation: buy some products and donate what you can afford, so we can make a difference in the world around us together. Let’s bring life-changing resources to others.
But you still might be wondering…
How do I know James L. Clark is legit?
I suppose you don’t. At least, not yet.
The smartest thing to do is check me out online and get some of the free resources offered here or at my personal site. If you think they’re good, you’ll probably be happy with my books and other materials like courses, videos, and live events. If you think they suck, or you don’t like what you find out about me or what people say about me (some true, some not)―then you won’t.
I’ve really tried desperately to stay away from the whole self-aggrandizing thing over the last five or six years, but unfortunately, it’s almost impossible to promote a product or a service, without talking a bit about myself too. It’s a strange dichotomy to be sure, so, here goes nothing:
I’ve done some stuff. I’ve earned some things. I’ve traveled some places. And I’ve made some money.
You can read more about me at places like IMDB, where my “Star Meter” once rocketed to 23,978. It’s back to a more realistic number these days. Google hard enough, and you’ll learn more about me than either one of us really cares to know.
What I will do for you specifically.
My main focus is in helping you reach your full potential. Now, just what that is, I don’t know. And that’s something I can help you, through this website and the Foundation, discover. But first, let’s be straight: you can’t do or be anything you want to. That’s a lie.
Yes, I know everyone says you can, but let me be the first “self help” guy to tell you that’s a load of bul, um, it’s simply not true.
You can’t do anything you want in life, and you can’t be anything you want to be. Not gonna happen. Let me give you the perfect example.
I’m short. As in, vertically challenged when compared to many of my friends. Even if I loved basket ball with all my heart, all my soul, and all my being, and I played and practiced every single day, all day long, with the best coaches and utilized the top strategies―the chances of me ever becoming the next Spud Webb is fairly slim. The truth is, I’m never going to play for the NBA. But, I could be like Mark Cuban and own a team. That’s a far more achievable goal in my mind.
Like I said, I won’t BS you.
You can start this process by taking the --> FREE ASSESSMENT <-- we’ve built right now.
I also try to be approachable and make time for people, so if you want, schedule a --> FREE CALL <-- with me or one of my specially trained coaches. I think it’ll be 30 minutes that could be the first step to changing your life.
Here's my first bit of advice...
If you want to get started, then just follow these simple tasks/ asks:
- Sign up to my --> FREE NEWSLETTER <-- and confirm your double-opt-in email.
- If you're using Gmail or something like Microsoft Outlook, make sure that the email you get from me is whitelisted. In most applications, you can drag that email into the main inbox and that should do it. But, be sure to check your spam filter just in case off and on. Because once you sign up, you'll get a few emails from me right away. If they don't show up, you know why.
- Go to the Foundation’s --> ARTICLES <-- page, and read some of what me and some of our contributors have posted.
- Take the --> FREE ASSESSMENT <-- and honestly reflect on the results that will be sent to you by email.
- Consider buying some of our resources when I offer them, or donating to our causes so we can continue this work.
That’s it. Pretty easy, right?
Thanks for reading about me, and please do be your best self today.
Remember, the average person only has like 28,000 days to live.
So, Invest in yourself. And enjoy the ride. You’ll be glad you did.
About James L. Clark
James believes our purpose is to serve others as passionate and powerful examples of how to live productive and meaningful lives. He’s spent decades dedicating himself to the welfare of others, especially in times of crisis, and has deployed all over the world to assist those in need after major disasters. James now empowers others to abandon the "selfie-centered" life pushed in society today, so they can recapture their humanity and have a direct and tangible impact not only on their own happiness, but on other people’s lives too. James shares his experiences and the profound lessons he's learned along the way through his writing, speaking engagements, and the core mission of this Foundation, which is to live more abundant lives.